Meadville Lombard Theological School
sadly notes three recent deaths among alumni/ae. Two of the deceased were also past members of the Meadville Lombard Board of Trustees.
The Rev. Muriel Hannah Avenbury Davies, LHD '01, and Former Member of the Meadville Lombard Board of Trustees.
Rev.
Davies died December 20 at her home in Derwood, Maryland, at the
age of 103. She was, according to the citation for her honorary doctorate from Meadville Lombard, an "innovator, organizer, religious educator, and dedicated worker within Unitarian Universalism." For her accomplishments and longevity, she was a doyenne among UUs.
Arriving from England in the United States with her husband, the Methodist minister Rev. A. Powell Davies, DD '47, they together sought out and joined the liberal religious movement of Unitarianism. After supporting the ministry of Powell Davies at the Unitarian Church in Summit, New Jersey, and at All Souls Church, Unitarian, of Washington, D.C., Muriel Davies became a young widow in 1957 with the untimely death of her husband.
Entering this new phase of her life, she led the creation of River Road Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Bethesda, Maryland, and also founded the River Road Unitarian School of Religion, leading it as director for 11 years. Dedicated to the future of Unitarian Universalism, she was a member of the UUA Board of Trustees for six years at the time of Unitarian and Universalist consolidation 50 years ago. She served on the Ministerial Fellowship Committee. And she served on the Meadville Lombard Board of Trustees, where she was a voice for religious education within theological education. She received an honorary doctor of humane letters degree from Meadville Lombard in 2001.
At her 100th birthday in 2006, Muriel Davies was ordained as minister emerita by the congregation of River Road.
Rev. Davies was preceded in death by her eldest daughter, Gwen Offenbacher. She is survived by her daughter, Bronwyn Gordon; four grandchildren, Wade Offenbacher, Gary Offenbacher, Laurie Coleman, and Tara Adams; six great-grandchildren, Michael Offenbacher, Brian Coleman, Megan Coleman, Rowan Cantua, Devin Cantua, and Mikalh Adams; and numerous neices, other relatives, and friends.
The life of Rev. Davies was remembered during a memorial service at River Road on January 30, 2010. An obituary notice from the Washington Post is available here. Memorial contributions may be made to the River Road UU Congregation Endowment Fund (6301 River Road, Bethesda, Maryland 20817) or to the A. Powell and Muriel Davies Scholarship at Meadville Lombard by completing the online donation form and indicating "Davies Scholarship" in the comments section, or by writing to the Development and Alumni/ae Affairs Office of Meadville Lombard at 5701 South Woodlawn Avenue, Chicago, Illinois 60637.
The Rev. Dr. William J. Metzger, DMin '79.
Dr. Metzger, age 73, died January 30 at Denton Regional Medical Center in Denton, Texas. He was consulting co-minister of Denton Unitarian Universalist Fellowship with his wife, The Rev. Diana Heath, who survives him.
Dr. Metzger was an accredited interim minister and served churches in many states including, most recently, Texas, Pennsylvania, Illinois, Tennessee, and Alabama.
He also was editor of The Quest, a magazine published by the Theosophical Society in America from its founding in 1988 until 1988. He had also been editor of The American Theosophist.
According to Under the Ancient Oaks , a blog authored by a Denton UU Fellowship member, the fellowship reported in an email message that Dr. Metzger's children, David and Christine, were with him while he was in hospice care at the Denton hospital.
The blogger, who writes under the name "JohnFranc," wrote in his post about Dr. Metzger:
I was impressed with Bill from the first time I met him, when I was Chair of the Ministerial Search Committee and he and Diana came to interview with us. He was kind and gentle, but it was clear there was a strong intellect and a strong spirituality about him. He spent twelve years as editor for the Theosophical Society — I tried a time or two to pick his brain about those years, but never got very far.
Bill was not in good health by the time he came to Denton. I always enjoyed listening to him preach, but I couldn't help wishing I had heard him ten years earlier, when his body and voice were still as strong as his mind.
I'm blessed to have known Bill — I will miss him.
A service celebrating the life of Dr. Metzger will be held at the Denton UU Fellowship on Saturday, February 6, at 2 p.m. with The Rev. Davidson Loehr officiating. A memorial service is also planned for Saturday, February 20, at 2 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Elgin, Illinois, which Dr. Metzger served from 1978 to 1986.
The Rev. Suzanne Pike Meyer, MDiv '83, and Former Member of the Meadville Lombard Board of Trustees.
Rev. Meyer died of cancer on January 23 in Cheyenne, Wyoming, at age 56. She had been minister of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Cheyenne since 2008.
Rev. Meyer was born November 24, 1953, in Dallas. She was the only child of Robert and Pansy Pike.
She graduated from the University of Houston in 1976 with a degree in broadcast journalism. After earning her masters degree in divinity at Meadville Lombard in 1983, she became the alumni/ae representative on the Meadville Lombard Board of Trustees.
Her marriage ended in divorce, with no children
Ordained to the Unitarian Universalist ministry in 1983 by the Unitarian Church of Vancouver, British Columbia, she served churches in Texas,
Louisiana, Oklahoma, Georgia, Missouri, as well as Wyoming. She was nationally
recognized for her preaching, teaching, and writing.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, February 5, at 11
a.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Cheyenne. The Rev.
Dana Lightsey of the Cheyenne UU Church will officiate. The Rev. Dr. Marc Salkin, MA '72, DMin '73, of Foothills Unitarian Church in Fort Collins,
Colorado, and The Rev. Jack D. Bryant of Hope Unitarian Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma, will participate.
A
second service will be held on Wednesday, February 10, at Hope Unitarian Church in Tulsa.
A eulogy for Rev. Meyer was delivered January 31 at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta, Georgia,by The Rev. Anthony David, MDiv '03. Rev. Meyer had served as associate minister in Atlanta from 2001 to 2003. The eulogy is posted on Thousand Voices, which is Rev. David's blog. Rev. David wrote in the eulogy:
Suzanne was a consummate professional. But at times, she had to assert this against unfair prejudice. Undeserved cruelty. Beth Stevenson recalls a story she once told, about how, as a female minister, she went to a funeral home wearing her black robe to officiate at a service. As the time to begin neared, she approached the funeral director and pointed this out. Time to start. But this is what the funeral director said, to Suzanne, standing there in her black robe: “Don’t you think we should wait for the minister?” Too many of my female colleagues have had to struggle through prejudice like this, from men and from women, even in the here and now. Pettiness like this.
But she was undiminished — the torch of her life burning brightly. A force of nature, in service to a mighty purpose. Says Helen Borland, “I remember that she was an extremely fast speaker and I didn’t know if it was because she thought she’d only have one chance to speak in our pulpit and had a lot to say, or if that was her style.” It was her style. Lots to say. A brilliant mind and brilliant writer. “Because our theology is ethical rather than metaphysical,” says Suzanne, “we emphasize two things: relationship and behavior. What is our relationship to the moral imperative, to each other, to the earth, and so forth? What does it mean in this context to be a good human being? What is right relationship? What is our duty here and now at this juncture of history?” All these urgent questions, rolling down like thunder in and through her ministry.
She loved what she did. And it helped ease a pain that she carried with her most of her life, which was loneliness — her long sorrow at not having a spouse and children. As an only child she dreamed of being surrounded by a large, loving family. But it was not to be. Or, it was to happen in only a partial way, through collegial relationships and service in congregations around the country.
Colleagues and congregants meant everything to her. Elaine Eklund talks about her friendship with Suzanne, how they shared a common culture growing up: “poor white trash ancestors who moved into the middle class.” Also a love for southern culture and flashy fashion. Just before Suzanne left UUCA to become the Senior Minister of First Unitarian in St. Louis, Elaine took up money for a gift and bought her, she says, “an ‘in your face jacket’ from Chico’s (her favorite store) and a copy of The Encyclopedia of South Culture. Says Elaine, “I wanted a copy so badly I could taste it, so I knew she’d like it.” A genuine Steel Magnolia.
Rev. Meyer requested that donations in lieu of flowers be made to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Cheyenne, 3005
Thomes Avenue, Post Office Box 2331, Cheyenne, Wyoming 82003.
Update on February 7, 2010: Rev. Metzger was the subject of an extensive obituary in the Denton (Texas) Record-Chronicle. Link to obituary. His middle initial, originally in error, has been corrected in this post.
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